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Seven Tips for a Happy Christian Marriage

March 28, 2014

Here are seven tips for a happy Christian marriage coming from Mr. Don Verduin, a member of our church, who has been married for 67 years:


Don & Alice Verduin


  1. Make God the center of your life and marriage. Seek God’s will as found in the Bible, and make His Word your guide for all decisions you are required to make.

  2. Make sure that you read the Bible every day. The Bible has answers for every issue that Christian couples face. For instance, take time to study Ephesians 5 – 6: 18 where God has listed rules for a happy marriage.

  3. Church attendance is a must. As a couple, support your church with your prayers, gifts, and time. The fellowship with Christian friends can be educational and comforting. Also, be sure to tithe, and, if able, to give beyond your tithe. God requires giving and blesses those who give.

  4. If God blesses your home with children, train them according to His way. The rearing of your children is a joy, but also a responsibility. Take time to read and explain God’s will for your children. Take your children to church with you. Teach your children the songs of the church, songs they will continue to carry with them throughout life. When possible, do all in your power to provide your children with a Christian education. To do so may require your family to change its lifestyle, but in the end God will bless your family.

  5. Children will disrespect authority, especially that of their parents. In a loving way explain God’s rules and do not permit this sin to continue.

  6. Sometimes the relationship between a husband and wife can become fragile. Take the time to see what God’s Word says and seek His will through prayer. Remember, God grants forgiveness to those who repent and ask for forgiveness. A husband and wife must do the same. A forgiving spirit will strengthen the marriage bond. Do not be slow to accept an apology and to grant forgiveness.

  7. Whenever possible, a husband and wife should do things together: attend church, instruct your children in the catechism, help each other with the housework, or spend time together in the garden. Doing things together such as these will help build respect for each other, as well as leave a good example for your children.

11 Comments leave one →
  1. October 3, 2014 8:49 am

    Great points! Thankfully, my wife and I are off to a flying start in them through our first year and a half, except for the kids one (don’t have any yet).

  2. April 16, 2014 10:22 am

    Reblogged this on Theory of The Phil.

  3. April 14, 2014 12:08 pm

    I’ll definitely share this. GOD as the center of not just a relationship but in everything we do, NO one can destroy that bond.

  4. sethsoasis permalink
    March 30, 2014 6:18 pm

    Reblogged this on Seth's Oasis.

  5. March 29, 2014 11:16 pm

    Reblogged this on Deryk Hayes's Blog and commented:
    Great post!

  6. March 29, 2014 11:06 pm

    Reblogged this on The Particular Baptist Journal.


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